id like to know if there are any girls here that have a lot of value. that dont drink and have enough respect for themselves not to sleep around with girls. id like to know if there are any girls out there who are willing to see the world with someone or would just sit on the couch and lay their head on my shoulder. are you there?

er i mean sleep with guys. he he he whoops.

So CAN I sleep around with other girls, as long as I keep guys out of the picture?

there are plenty of girls like that here, i should know im one of them, you're probably just looking in the wrong places, or looking too hard

Wrong places. You need to look for the ones with "taken" written on thier foreheads. i.e., all of them.

They're out there. I promise.

I found a girl like that once.....but she turned out to be overly weird after about 2 weeks of dating....i'm almost convinced they don't exist too, lol.
Of course i don't look very hard...

Then where are they hiding, I ask? WHERE?
Do they sit in there rooms all day playing video games and watching anime too?

They're avoiding YOU.

i suppose i am looking in all the wrong places, or maybe i just have my head too low.

yea it is a mystery, that of the female. There are plenty of good girls out there and just as many not so good girls. If your looking for a girl who doesnt drink there the ones at parties drinking the sodas, or there here in the dorms/sororities waiting for a guy to get off his ass and come looking. personally i am no longer one of those guys, every time i stick my neck out it gets chopped off by whomever i was interested in, i have yet to have a good relationship, i try my hardest to be myself, someone who every one likes but for somereason it attracts a girl only to later drive them away after a few short weeks, then i ask what happened and then i wind up loosing a good friend, so ive given up looking now i just sit around waiting for the girl to notice me, i dont believe relationships are based on sex sure that is sometimes a byproduct of a good relationship, but more of a truly close relationship with anohter person, usually of the other sex mind u but not always. Just open your eyes and look around youll find em, i know ive seen em, and had em just cant seem to keep em, dunno y

being an extreme introvert doesnt help i guess. sometimes i think God will just send her too me. who knows, it may happen, it may not. i should just be patient.

since when does imbibing alcohol mean that you don't have any values? alcohol has been enjoyed by everyone since the ancient aztecs. in fact a common bond among men is having a beer. now sure you don't need to get all shit-nasty, binge drinking can be bad, driving drunk is bad, alcoholism is bad, but there is nothing wrong with getting tore up every now and again. pussy

me having a problem with ppl drinking makes me a pussy? wow thats strange. i find it weak that you have to use some kind of substance just to have fun. granted you dont 'need' it to have fun, but i feel like that is the only reason many do it. i find those ppl the weak and shallow ones. not me. and why base a bond on a drink? that is pathetic, base it on something that is real like friendship.

i will pray for you, i will pray that you find more kindness in your heart so that you dont have to resort to name calling of those that have differing opinions to yours.